The love is not action. If someone does it or the love is engaged in it, it not love. The love is an existence, instead of action. It is impossible "to do" love twenty four hours per day. From any action the weariness comes. And if you it is not tired, you would like to relax. Therefore making love relax in hatred, in something opposite to love.
That is why your love is mixed with hatred. The same person is both object of love, and hatred, during one moment you love, during other moment you and hate it. In it the conflict, and it exists, while the love is making, employment.
It is necessary to understand, that love - not making. It is possible to love, but it is impossible "to do" love. It is possible to love, but it is impossible to make love. To love it is not necessary to apply terms of psychological mutual relations, and to apply terms of a condition of consciousness is better. If there is a love. That this condition of consciousness. It can be concentrated to one person, and can be concentrated on general. If it is concentrated to one person it name love if it is concentrated on general it turns to a prayful condition.
The condition of love is natural as breath. If we breathed with effort it is tired from it, we would need to have a rest from breath, and we would die. The love is a breath at higher level. If there is no breath, the body will die. If there is no love, the soul cannot be born. The love is a breath of our soul. When we love, in us the soul comes to life. But it is impossible to tell: " Breathe only at my presence, and do not breathe in other cases ". It is impossible to tell: " Live only beside with me ". If you will obey, become dead.
It is impossible to tell: " Love only at my presence ". There Is no monopoly for love. All this does not mean, that it is necessary to love all successively, but we should be in a loving condition of mind. It as breath - even at presence of enemies we continue to breathe.
When we breathe air of love, all our aura varies. It becomes sparkling, radiating, joyful. The woman with such aura becomes superattractive to men. It try to buy, subdue, take in the wife. Men subconsciously feel, that the aura of love is fine ground for cultivation of seeds. If you love, render the strongest magnetic influence.
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For eternally sad laughter - effort. For those who is constantly angry, it is angry, irritable, the calmness and benevolence are effort. But for the one who is in a condition of love, the anger, grief, a rage are connected with greate effort. It can show anger, but be real it cannot angry. The Christ is not capable to hate, and the effort for love is required to you.
All and spiritual experts are directed to religion on change of a condition of mind. One people inspire on love. Others try to initiate hatred. Divinity can enable to feel to you one instant of love. And you learn a secret of love. Duration does not play great value. If you learn taste of a drop of ocean, you learn taste of all ocean. You will have a standard of love. It is light, cleanliness, fidelity, sincerity, inspiration, a holiday, creativity, self-feedback, fidelity, self-knowledge, beauty... And when there is an envy, jealousy, hatred, rage, the property, sensuality, you at once get the standard, presented to you the Lord, and compare.
Owing to love you can stay in the present. The moments of bright, comprehensive love plunge into prematureness. The love is the termination of current of ideas. When you from the beloved, you do not think of love, you do not think of a beloved, you do not think at all. You celebrate its presence, are pleased to its existence. If you think, stay in the past or the future, here or there. To think means absence "now". But when you love, you here and now. Too sharp thinking cannot love. All of them time think and think. The moment of love is time without time. If the person loves, it does not think of how to love twenty four hours per day. If it alive, it does not think how to be alive twenty four hours per day.
